Archive - Active Listening

Cleaning out my mother’s house after she died revealed the usual postmortem waste.

Feb 14, 2024 •

December 2023

Yesterday I opened up some of my mother’s mail and found a bill for $45,903.

Dec 22, 2023 •

July 2023

After January’s crisis my mother’s health got better for a few days, maybe a week or two, before returning to its slow decline.

Jul 7, 2023 •

February 2023

Waiting for the ibuprofen to kick in

I never planned to write a newsletter about elder care or spend so much time writing chronicles of how things are going with my mom.

Feb 1, 2023 •

September 2022

My mother’s health took a turn for the worse back in April.

Sep 16, 2022 •

January 2022

This is what I do on Friday nights

The thing I like most about Philadelphia is the way people greet each other on the street.

Jan 29, 2022 •

Last year I wrote about the challenges of writing when you’ve experienced a dislocation—of needing to have a sense of who you are and where you’re…

Jan 7, 2022 •

October 2021

I promise I'm not ghosting you

It’s just that I moved!

Oct 22, 2021 •

September 2021

Keeping in touch

I feel like I should say more about the thirty-year-old boyfriend.

Sep 12, 2021 •

August 2021

To Philadelphia

The week I graduated high school I moved into the apartment of my thirty-year-old boyfriend in Broward County and pretty much never went back home.

Aug 27, 2021 •

Masks are back :(

I wrote a thing about how it felt like the virus was over, how we all got to spend a minute feeling like this whole sad era of isolation and death was…

Aug 15, 2021 •

July 2021

When I started this newsletter I did not expect to write about my mom at all.

Jul 29, 2021 •

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